Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Important Children

Do you think that money is more important than every thing else? Many parents may think that having more money to treat their children well is the best way. They can buy toys for their children, let their children go to private school, travel with them and so on. Those parents are pretty good because they work for their children. They are very smart because they think that money will make children happy. Those parents think that their children will treat them well when their children grow up. It is true. However, If parents work hard for money, they do not have time to take carae of their children. They may let other people to take care of their children or put their children to childcare center. Should parents take care of their children who are under age of five, or should parents keep letting others take care of their children? Letting other people take care children who are under five is wrong because of the following reasons.
One reason that not taking care of children is wrong because parents will get anxious of being away of them. Parents should not let other people take care of their children because they don’t know how other people will treat their children. Even though parents give their children to nice people to take care, they do not stop worrying their children. They also should not take their children to childcare center because the employees from that center have taken care of many children. For example, there are three or four employees to take care of thirty or forty children. If one child is crying, another one wants to go to restroom, and one is hungry, three employees will go to take care of those children. The employees probably do not treat the children as well as the parents do. In addition, parents should treat their children by their own. Because parents love their children better than others, they have to do that.
Second, not taking care of children will not produce good relationship with them. When I was at high school, I met a good friend. He told me that he lived with his grandmother for many years because his parents had a business, and they rarely stayed at home. He also told me that he was so alone when he was young. He was very sad because he felt that he didn’t have parents. I knew that he didn’t have good relationship with his parents. For instance, one day when I went to his house, I saw his parents. He didn’t talk much with them, so I was confused about that. I certainly asked him of reason because I talked to my parents a lot. He told me that he didn’t have many subjects with them. Then I said his parents worked for him. Because they wanted him to live better, they were good parents. He just scowled and said he didn’t want to talk about his parents. Not taking care of children will cause problem like my friend.
The final reason is that taking care of children is supposed to cause good sensation. My friend who works very hard has two children. He thinks about his family’s future everyday. He wants to buy a good house, a nice car, let their children go to private school. It is very hard for him to do these things. He is a good father, and he is supposed to do that. However, he is usually happy when he plays with them. Even though he is tired at home, he feels well because of his children. He loves them very much. Taking care of children is very rewarding.
Many people might think that taking care of children is not important because they think that they have better lives with their kids just by earning more money. That is true in some case; however, as stated previously, parents need to take care of their children within the first few years, not their lives. Parents must decide if earning more money is more important that taking care of young children. Basically, Parents can earn more money when their children grow up.
In conclusion, if parents do take care of their young children, they must be relieved, have a good relationship and to be happy with children. Childhood is important for everyone and the society, so every couple must know that. Parents should not spend more time on work. They are humans, they need relax too.

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