Thursday, April 30, 2009
Daycare or Homecare?
First, daycare is not beneficial for family’s communication while children’s growing up in first few years. As we known, children’s first few years of life is their formative years. There is an internet research which reported that long time in daycare may bring children weaker emotional relation with parents. As for a parent, should you allow that your children might spend more time each day with strangers at daycare than they would stay with you? It’s a obvious pity to miss the moment of your kid’s childhood since time past so soon.
Second, daycare is not beneficial for children’s health when growing up. The daycare centers only can offer the same food, place and service to each child because of the rise in demand for daycare service. Based on your equal pay, daycare centers will never request to offer special food or service according to your children’s personal nutritional requirement. Also, your children in daycare centers would be exposed to more infections and respiratory illness than they would be taken care at home. If you want to offer a safe and healthy condition to your children at the first few years of life, it’s better to take care of them at home.
Finally, it’s so hard to find a suitable daycare centers exactly the educational way as you like. There’s no doubt that the rise in demand for daycare mean there will be more unqualified caregivers waiting to offer their services. As for caregiver, it just her job to take care of your children because they got pay. They will never be responsible for stand as parents side to offer a right and suitable education way to your children. They will never be patience to correct your children’s mistakes and teach them good manners and behaviors. If you expect to train you children to have good manners and behaviors at their beginning, it’s better to keep your children at home and teach by yourself.
The opponents of homecare might say that daycare is beneficial for children and family because their parents get free from homework. They can pay more attention to their jobs and earn more money to improve family income and offer better condition to children. If you are in the same situation, ask yourself how much income you will gain from your second job, minus the cost of your daycare service. Is the money worth it? The obvious answer is no. It’s not worth to send your children to stay with strangers in daycare instead of parents’ warm attention.
In conclusion, there are many reasons which show us that daycare is not beneficial for children under the age of five. One parent should stay home with his/her children for the first few years of life. As we known, children’s health growing up and positive childhood is the most important thing for a happy family, children’s health and successful future is all parents’ targets and motivity. If you want to offer a right direction and wonderful future to your children, it is worth to stay at home with them for the first few years of life, just do it yourself.
International students should pass the TOEFL
Nowadays, more and more international students come to American universities for study. Before those international students come into American universities, they must give their TOEFL scores which can prove their English levels. TOEFL is a certificate which provides the students who come from non-English speaking countries an English proficiency test. International students should need an appropriate TOEFL score to prove if they could study, live and work in English-speaking countries.
First, TOEFL is evidence to prove students’ ability to study in English-speaking countries. Each country’s English language proficiency is different. In order to make sure that students have the ability to study in an English-speaking country, they should be qualified with TOEFL learning. If the student did not pass the TOEFL, but directly went to an American University to study, he or she will feel trouble to learn the teachers’ words. Therefore, the TOEFL test is so important that it can ensure those international students in English-speaking countries the ability to learn.
Secondly, after the adoption of the TOEFL test, it proves that international students are capable of living in the English-speaking countries. In addition, for international students at schools, they still live in an English-speaking environment. For example, they need to go to government departments to make documents, so they must use English to communicate with others. For this reason, TOEFL learning improves students living in the English-speaking countries with the langue ability.
TOEFL study can make the international students perform better in langue even as good as local students. In some cases, international students are not worse than the local students, but they do not have good performances because they don’t have good langue ability of English. If the international students have learned and passed TOEFL, they would have a good langue ability of English, they would perform as well as local students. The international students passed the TOEFL tests, it also indicates that students are able to adapt to the forthcoming study of life and can successfully complete their education.
TOEFL is a test of English and its role is only to test the English proficiency of international students. It cannot fully demonstrate the professional competence of students. For this reason, some students think that the TOEFL scores of American University admission standards as unfair. From another point of view, international students have a good English ability which is the base of professional knowledge. TOEFL scores of international students is proof of English proficiency.
TOEFL is a certificate and also a main requirement for international students to enter a university. It ensures that international students have a good langue ability of English, the ability to live and study in English-speaking countries. Only through the TOEFL test, can international students have the ability and same competitiveness of local students. That is why TOEFL is so important and is the main requirement for international students.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Important Children
One reason that not taking care of children is wrong because parents will get anxious of being away of them. Parents should not let other people take care of their children because they don’t know how other people will treat their children. Even though parents give their children to nice people to take care, they do not stop worrying their children. They also should not take their children to childcare center because the employees from that center have taken care of many children. For example, there are three or four employees to take care of thirty or forty children. If one child is crying, another one wants to go to restroom, and one is hungry, three employees will go to take care of those children. The employees probably do not treat the children as well as the parents do. In addition, parents should treat their children by their own. Because parents love their children better than others, they have to do that.
Second, not taking care of children will not produce good relationship with them. When I was at high school, I met a good friend. He told me that he lived with his grandmother for many years because his parents had a business, and they rarely stayed at home. He also told me that he was so alone when he was young. He was very sad because he felt that he didn’t have parents. I knew that he didn’t have good relationship with his parents. For instance, one day when I went to his house, I saw his parents. He didn’t talk much with them, so I was confused about that. I certainly asked him of reason because I talked to my parents a lot. He told me that he didn’t have many subjects with them. Then I said his parents worked for him. Because they wanted him to live better, they were good parents. He just scowled and said he didn’t want to talk about his parents. Not taking care of children will cause problem like my friend.
The final reason is that taking care of children is supposed to cause good sensation. My friend who works very hard has two children. He thinks about his family’s future everyday. He wants to buy a good house, a nice car, let their children go to private school. It is very hard for him to do these things. He is a good father, and he is supposed to do that. However, he is usually happy when he plays with them. Even though he is tired at home, he feels well because of his children. He loves them very much. Taking care of children is very rewarding.
Many people might think that taking care of children is not important because they think that they have better lives with their kids just by earning more money. That is true in some case; however, as stated previously, parents need to take care of their children within the first few years, not their lives. Parents must decide if earning more money is more important that taking care of young children. Basically, Parents can earn more money when their children grow up.
In conclusion, if parents do take care of their young children, they must be relieved, have a good relationship and to be happy with children. Childhood is important for everyone and the society, so every couple must know that. Parents should not spend more time on work. They are humans, they need relax too.
TOEFL Test is Really Need to International Students?
First, U.S Education Government considered what is problem of international students because many international students didn’t follow regular university classes so they considered about this problems so they made TOEFL test. U.s government thought it will be really helpful to understand for international students. TOEFL test is very similar with university class such as vocabulary, lecture style, even school life. For example, I’m international student, so I already took this exam and I overcame this problem and hard times actually this exam is very difficult to international students so most students study a lot and staying up every day. In my case, when I was doing TOEFL study it was very hard time to me so I wanted to give up this test but without this score I can’t attend to U.S school so I studied. I think that this TOEFL study was really helpful to me actually now it is very helpful to me if I didn’t study I can’t understand lecture easily I can’t writing. However, some students have negative opinion about this test they think it just estimate person being not helping to university class and spend much more valuable time.
Furthermore, most of international students or TOEFL takers think that it is just university entrance exam so they become easily tardy. But I think that this test is not just simple test this one is provide a lot of help to us. For example, few weeks ago I rented book from library this book due day was 2weeks but I forgot about it so I didn’t return it but I didn’t confuse because I already studied about this situation from TOEFL lecture so thanks to TOEFL test I solved this problem more easily.
In conclusion, TOEFL test is Americas official test for attend to university for international students but some people think that TOEFL test does not help to international students however, I strongly believe that TOEFL study is very helpful to international students.
The Legal Age
21? I strongly believe that maturity of a person cannot be determined by age alone, because a person may be 18 or 21 but he/she may still not have adult characteristic.
The age some one becomes a legal adult in the United States is largely the age at which most children are considered adults in the rest of the world. However, a few counties set this age lower, but most of the Western worlds consider 18 as legal adult age in some cases a child under 18 is a legal adult,
especially for the purposes of marriage or signing contracts prior to 18. This is legal but rare and it often tends to occur if a child sues his/her parents for freedom to be self covered.
For many parents in the United States, the term legal adult does not mean that their children
possess certain adult characteristic. For instance, some parents may argue that being an adult may imply that their children are able to make mature delusion, participate in civic matters, and have self-
Control and be responsible. The fact is that there are some 18 year old that are simply not matured, and does not have the characteristic necessary for adulthood. Therefore, they need more time to develop and mature in those characteristics of an adult person.
In some States in the Unites States, some parents are concern about 18 year olds who are not mentally ready to make life altering decisions such marriage at early age or joining the military, which may not have been made with significant forethought. In this type of situations, there is very little that parents can do to rectify the problem. As a result, many parents feel that they no longer have control
over their children, who may have reach legal adult age but are still not functionally ready to be adult.
The issue of adult hood is a very sticky one for children in foster care. At the age of 18, they essentially age out of the system and the State no longer has the burden of supporting them. In few cases, however, foster parents will continue to support a child who is technically an adult, but children under this type of arrangement is always for short time. In few instances where the age is not a factor,
many children in the system are cared for by either a distance relative or biological parents.
In conclusion, a person may be biologically an adult and may have adult behavior but will still be treated as a child if he is under the age. Conversely, a person may legally be an adult but possess none of the maturity and responsibility that defines adult character. In this context, what age constitute a
legal adult age? Is it 18 or 21? I strongly believe that maturity of a person cannot be determined by age alone, because a person may be 18 or 21 but he/she may still not have adult characteristic. Therefore such person cannot to considered an adult even though they may have attained to legal age of adulthood.

04-10-09
Putting Your Child in Daycare is Your Best Choice
Why should you put your child in Daycare? According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, about 65% of women were part of her children under the age of five. Both parents must work to support the family. So, they have to put their children in the daycare. Daycare is a safe, healthful, nutritive environment for children. Putting your child in the daycare is your best choice, they are beneficial for three reasons.
First, children are developing good eating habits in the daycare. Children are growing, they need a well-balanced diet. The nutritionists in daycare have a professional knowledge. They have designed a variety of nutritious foods daily. Healthful diet effects children’s safety and ability which they want to learn. The children will be cultivated a good eating habits. Children always like sweet foods and dislike most vegetables and fruits. But the daily diet in daycare is a variety of foods from each of the food groups. Children have good eating habits in daycare.
Second, children have a quality environment in daycare. Their growth and development are influenced by their environment. They are in the periods of learning, experiencing new challenges and social interaction. They will train in a high-quality education programs by the teachers who have advanced knowledge in early childhood. They help children to learn new skills, such as self-care, independent, language and social community. They can receive so many
learning experiences and special services in Daycare. The teacher also designed a physical activity pyramid to help children get fit and stay healthy. They will do more physical exercise in Daycare.
Last, Daycare is a necessity for both working parents. Today is a high economy social. They have to work. They need to support the routine, such as the gas bill, mobile bill and many of payments. On the other hand, some of the parents are working for their interest. They like to challenge their ability. They don’t want to stay at home with their children . However, both parents have a different situation. Putting their child in Daycare is the necessary choice.
The opposite of putting your child in Daycare point out there are millions of microbes everywhere in Daycare. Your child will get the bacteria. It will cause many common cold or a stomach virus. Although these things are unpleasant for your child or cause you lose days from work, but Daycare is not only one of the places having microbes. Even though the microbes are full of your home. Staying at home or putting in Daycare both has the same microbe’s environments. But disinfections are required every day in Daycare. Children always encourage a good hand washing habits. Daycare still has a safe environment.
There are many reasons to benefit why you should put your child in Daycare. Children are developing good eating habits in daycare. Children have a quality environment because daycare is a learning, safe, health and quality place. It also is necessity for many working parents. Children acquire new skills and community in Daycare. Putting your child in Daycare is your best choice.
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saul
The Nation doesn’t know you, why should they have to choose your age to be an adult? Do they
know what’s mean being an adult? Quinceaneras, Super Sweat Sixteen or a sexual experience
in your life make you an adult, that's what society says. Biologist says adult is when people are
ready to have children. Psychologies say when people are prepared physical, spiritual, and
psychological to act different and take responsibilities by them self. In United State my ID can
tell you if I am older 21(adult) or over 21(am I a kid?) but not around the world. I wander where
are the values, feeling and responsibilities’ that it real makes you an adult, not just the age.
In many countries they just look for an age at which adult can legally work, marry, vote, buy
alcohol, or be charged with a crime, as the adult age. Many countries can variety, some start at
12 and some other countries they are adult at the age of 21, like United State. When we were
child, we were educated to do our best for the community doing the right with values that make
a person. Values introduced for the religions or introduced by our nation like respect, honest,
love and others more, it is not necessary to do it in certain age (age of license). We don’t need
that the government says how old we have to be to practice them. I know, and all of us know
what is wrong and what is right, when, where, and how to do it. That’s the value, knowing what
could be good or bad. If I want to have fun, do I need to be 21 or 18? Or that is a crime. We
cannot go to any club because we are not “legally” allowed having fun; we just want to have fun,
not drink. We already knew our values.
May be the first sexual relation means that people can become an adult. There is any book,
media or science that can say the exactly age to have sexual relation. We don’t need to be 18
to have relationship. If we want to drink, drive, do drug or go to clubs and have relations, we
don’t need to be 18 or 21 there is any rule that it says this. There are lot of people whose have
knowledge, experience, and responsibilities as an adult but they are not 18 or 21. The child
feelings and adult feelings are so different, but to have those feeling there isn’t any age to
feeling it.
As the part of the any nation we have right and responsibilities. They want us to serve, save,
pay and keep good the nation, but we cannot choose (vote) how is going to leader the nation,
unless we are 18. If we cannot vote, why do we have to pay tax, respect and protect the nation?
If we want to drive, we have to be 16 with permission to drive or 18 as an adult, but what
happen with those people who are over 18 and they don’t have driver license and cash the car,
they are charged with crime. How can they be charged as an adult if they are not adults? We
need to save the nation for our future with responsibilities no matter how old we are or we must
be 18, adult to have responsibilities and save the nation?
We have to obey the law; because they have knowledge to guide us to do the right. Also when
people are getting older, they are having more and more knowledge and experience to act
better in the life. The older, the better behavior people have to act in such hurt life. But we don’t
have to be old to have goods behavior, experiences, knowledge. Younger people have better
behaviors than a 21 years old, adult person. If they don’t lend us to do thing and have mistake,
how can we learn. Or we have to wait 18 years to make mistake and learn about what is life.
There are any age to be considered as an adult, every person is different and every person act
and grow in different ways. Why the government wants to make and adult at the age of 18? I
think is not just the age to be an adult, is also having values, feelings, responsibilities. Be
preparing physical, spiritual and psychological to live your life by your self and do it correctly
with knowledge, experience and wisdom. That’s what it means be an adult.
Saul Gutierrez.
Childhood and Parenthood
The first reason is that obligation lies on parents to take all necessary steps for the betterment of their children. Nowadays, it has become a custom to leave children at day care because of busy life schedule. Everyone is trying to earn a lot of money due to financial needs. Nevertheless, home care is a ideal for children. Parents should not prefer money against their children’s future. Usually, the just first five years of child’s life parents should take care by themselves because money cannot be the alternative of their love. Parents should spend their maximum time with children in early five years, it will be more fruitful for them.
Certainly, there is no other substitute of child’s care except mother and father. In childhood, children need real love and care from their parents. Every child deserve true love from their parents. Parents are supposed to sacrifice their time and life for their children. They should concentrate on their children in all respects. It should not be considered as a burden. Also, working mother should compromise with her life at least the child is a five years of age by quitting her job because a child needs mother’s care and attention. Growth by parent will create a everlasting sense of love and responsibility in child.
Moreover, mother and father have spiritual relation with children and patents can only fill the heart of child with love and affection. Obviously, parents can also enjoy the innocence of their child. Hence, nobody can provide attention to the children which they need at childhood. Basically, homecare has lot of advantages for children because a child needs home environment. For example, taking care by parents establishes a close and tight knit relation between child and parents. The children grown by their parents behave positive in the society.
On the other hand, opponents have different aspect about childhood issues. One of the reason is that parents need more money to grow their children. It is very important for parents to work for their children’s future, so that they would be able to provide all facilities. In addition, there is another opposing argument that daycare centers are very useful and both parents can go to their work. Furthermore, opponents argue that daycare centers have trained staff who are well-aware of children’s interest and requirements. One point of view in favor of daycare is that under bad economic problems parents needs more money for their better living standard. Even though, daycare centers are growing day by day and busy life schedule is jolted and it sends parents over the edge. In spite of, Medical science acknowledges that children, who were fed by their mothers are more intelligent and sharp minded than other children. Last but not least, parents can arrange some midwife or babysitter at home. Whereas, daycare center is a business, therefore, they deal with children on commercial basis.
By concluding this topic, that this is the liability of parents to give full attention to their children. Therefore, mother should stay at home until the child reaches the age of five year or more. On the whole, parents are bound, socially and ethically for the wellness of children.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009

By definition becoming an adult means to have grown-up. Be a grown-up. So 18 –21 should be the age of considering someone an adult. But there are many aspects to consider when we talk about being adult. Physically perhaps, this is the closest to the age definition, but considering other aspects like emotional, spiritual, financial, etc, the age of becoming an adult may vary a lot, because these aspects have a greater relation to our education and life experiences.
In the first place considering that many people go through emotional experiences, and that this make adults of them. Like in dating, staying with a girl when in high school for a couple of years and then breaking up, leaving marks and memories which will be of use in a new relationship. This is a good example for women to become emotionally adult.
Another aspect that we can call on for becoming an adult is on spiritual ground. Most of the young people when around turning eighteen, like to have some independence, want to have a good time and forget about their family. Such as attending service together, have a nice meal or even a conversation for reflexion. This goes on for a while, the so called puberty. When he finally gets aware of the real values of life it’s time to call him an adult, where he starts to appreciate the hidden things of life.
At last there is the financial aspect. That’s when a person needs to care for his own, his living and welfare. Living on yourself is a great stage in one’s life, the responsability of a job is a great way to prove that you are ready to be called an adult. Generally speaking this is at age 21. For myself I can tell that going abroad is a fantastic example, the way that people grow as a individual and become responsible is substantial.
As a conclusion we can state that becoming an adult means there’s no more time to trifle with life, but you have to live with emotions, spirit and responsability so that you can turn your dreams in reality with courage and willpower. When you have turned 21 you really must be ready to choose and follow the road that will lead you to a happy life.
Daycare as a Second Home for our children
How do you feel about day cares? Would you prefer to put your children in daycare, or would you take care of them by yourself? We all know that it is wrong to take children away from their parents. However, these days fathers and mothers have to go to work. They should get their children to a daycare. Some people say that a daycare is not a good place for children, but the following reasons will show why a child should go to a daycare center.
The first reason for allowing children to go to the daycare is they will be more socialized in the future lives. The bases of people's characteristics are formed in their childhoods. If children don't have any contact with others, how can they improve themselves? Day cares are a place where where children can meet other children. They can play with each other and make friends.
The second reason to have daycare for children is that they will be ready to go to school. The first day of school can be a very bad memory for those who have had no daycare experience. For example, I have had day care experience, when i came to school. My father dropped me off outside my school. I was very happy. I was surprised when I saw a lot of my classmates were with their parents. While they were crying, they said we don't want to stay in school alone. I think it was the first time that they were without their parents.
The last reason for using day care for children is because their parents can continue their jobs. Some companies' policy for having a child is not very good. For example, after giving birth to a child new mothers have two months off. What are they supposed to do? If they do not go to work , they will be laid off. It is not a dilemma.Day care is a good solution. Therefore, by choosing a good day care for their children, they can keep their jobs.
Some opponents of day care might say that nobody can take care of children like their parents. We cannot trust day cares to take care of our children. However, children have to go to school. Parents cannot always be with them. Sooner or later children have to be independent from their parents. Therefore, sooner is better. During their time in day care, children learn how they can adapt themselves to be far from their parents. Also, they do not have any problem in this case when they want to go to school.
There are many good reasons for children to go to day care. It seems that, it has benefits for both children and their parents. Let's try to give our children a good experience o their first day of school, by allowing them to go to day care.
Monday, April 27, 2009
TOEFL Test

Tuesday, April 21, 2009
The Great Debaters
