Wednesday, April 29, 2009
saul
The Nation doesn’t know you, why should they have to choose your age to be an adult? Do they
know what’s mean being an adult? Quinceaneras, Super Sweat Sixteen or a sexual experience
in your life make you an adult, that's what society says. Biologist says adult is when people are
ready to have children. Psychologies say when people are prepared physical, spiritual, and
psychological to act different and take responsibilities by them self. In United State my ID can
tell you if I am older 21(adult) or over 21(am I a kid?) but not around the world. I wander where
are the values, feeling and responsibilities’ that it real makes you an adult, not just the age.
In many countries they just look for an age at which adult can legally work, marry, vote, buy
alcohol, or be charged with a crime, as the adult age. Many countries can variety, some start at
12 and some other countries they are adult at the age of 21, like United State. When we were
child, we were educated to do our best for the community doing the right with values that make
a person. Values introduced for the religions or introduced by our nation like respect, honest,
love and others more, it is not necessary to do it in certain age (age of license). We don’t need
that the government says how old we have to be to practice them. I know, and all of us know
what is wrong and what is right, when, where, and how to do it. That’s the value, knowing what
could be good or bad. If I want to have fun, do I need to be 21 or 18? Or that is a crime. We
cannot go to any club because we are not “legally” allowed having fun; we just want to have fun,
not drink. We already knew our values.
May be the first sexual relation means that people can become an adult. There is any book,
media or science that can say the exactly age to have sexual relation. We don’t need to be 18
to have relationship. If we want to drink, drive, do drug or go to clubs and have relations, we
don’t need to be 18 or 21 there is any rule that it says this. There are lot of people whose have
knowledge, experience, and responsibilities as an adult but they are not 18 or 21. The child
feelings and adult feelings are so different, but to have those feeling there isn’t any age to
feeling it.
As the part of the any nation we have right and responsibilities. They want us to serve, save,
pay and keep good the nation, but we cannot choose (vote) how is going to leader the nation,
unless we are 18. If we cannot vote, why do we have to pay tax, respect and protect the nation?
If we want to drive, we have to be 16 with permission to drive or 18 as an adult, but what
happen with those people who are over 18 and they don’t have driver license and cash the car,
they are charged with crime. How can they be charged as an adult if they are not adults? We
need to save the nation for our future with responsibilities no matter how old we are or we must
be 18, adult to have responsibilities and save the nation?
We have to obey the law; because they have knowledge to guide us to do the right. Also when
people are getting older, they are having more and more knowledge and experience to act
better in the life. The older, the better behavior people have to act in such hurt life. But we don’t
have to be old to have goods behavior, experiences, knowledge. Younger people have better
behaviors than a 21 years old, adult person. If they don’t lend us to do thing and have mistake,
how can we learn. Or we have to wait 18 years to make mistake and learn about what is life.
There are any age to be considered as an adult, every person is different and every person act
and grow in different ways. Why the government wants to make and adult at the age of 18? I
think is not just the age to be an adult, is also having values, feelings, responsibilities. Be
preparing physical, spiritual and psychological to live your life by your self and do it correctly
with knowledge, experience and wisdom. That’s what it means be an adult.
Saul Gutierrez.
Childhood and Parenthood
The first reason is that obligation lies on parents to take all necessary steps for the betterment of their children. Nowadays, it has become a custom to leave children at day care because of busy life schedule. Everyone is trying to earn a lot of money due to financial needs. Nevertheless, home care is a ideal for children. Parents should not prefer money against their children’s future. Usually, the just first five years of child’s life parents should take care by themselves because money cannot be the alternative of their love. Parents should spend their maximum time with children in early five years, it will be more fruitful for them.
Certainly, there is no other substitute of child’s care except mother and father. In childhood, children need real love and care from their parents. Every child deserve true love from their parents. Parents are supposed to sacrifice their time and life for their children. They should concentrate on their children in all respects. It should not be considered as a burden. Also, working mother should compromise with her life at least the child is a five years of age by quitting her job because a child needs mother’s care and attention. Growth by parent will create a everlasting sense of love and responsibility in child.
Moreover, mother and father have spiritual relation with children and patents can only fill the heart of child with love and affection. Obviously, parents can also enjoy the innocence of their child. Hence, nobody can provide attention to the children which they need at childhood. Basically, homecare has lot of advantages for children because a child needs home environment. For example, taking care by parents establishes a close and tight knit relation between child and parents. The children grown by their parents behave positive in the society.
On the other hand, opponents have different aspect about childhood issues. One of the reason is that parents need more money to grow their children. It is very important for parents to work for their children’s future, so that they would be able to provide all facilities. In addition, there is another opposing argument that daycare centers are very useful and both parents can go to their work. Furthermore, opponents argue that daycare centers have trained staff who are well-aware of children’s interest and requirements. One point of view in favor of daycare is that under bad economic problems parents needs more money for their better living standard. Even though, daycare centers are growing day by day and busy life schedule is jolted and it sends parents over the edge. In spite of, Medical science acknowledges that children, who were fed by their mothers are more intelligent and sharp minded than other children. Last but not least, parents can arrange some midwife or babysitter at home. Whereas, daycare center is a business, therefore, they deal with children on commercial basis.
By concluding this topic, that this is the liability of parents to give full attention to their children. Therefore, mother should stay at home until the child reaches the age of five year or more. On the whole, parents are bound, socially and ethically for the wellness of children.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009

By definition becoming an adult means to have grown-up. Be a grown-up. So 18 –21 should be the age of considering someone an adult. But there are many aspects to consider when we talk about being adult. Physically perhaps, this is the closest to the age definition, but considering other aspects like emotional, spiritual, financial, etc, the age of becoming an adult may vary a lot, because these aspects have a greater relation to our education and life experiences.
In the first place considering that many people go through emotional experiences, and that this make adults of them. Like in dating, staying with a girl when in high school for a couple of years and then breaking up, leaving marks and memories which will be of use in a new relationship. This is a good example for women to become emotionally adult.
Another aspect that we can call on for becoming an adult is on spiritual ground. Most of the young people when around turning eighteen, like to have some independence, want to have a good time and forget about their family. Such as attending service together, have a nice meal or even a conversation for reflexion. This goes on for a while, the so called puberty. When he finally gets aware of the real values of life it’s time to call him an adult, where he starts to appreciate the hidden things of life.
At last there is the financial aspect. That’s when a person needs to care for his own, his living and welfare. Living on yourself is a great stage in one’s life, the responsability of a job is a great way to prove that you are ready to be called an adult. Generally speaking this is at age 21. For myself I can tell that going abroad is a fantastic example, the way that people grow as a individual and become responsible is substantial.
As a conclusion we can state that becoming an adult means there’s no more time to trifle with life, but you have to live with emotions, spirit and responsability so that you can turn your dreams in reality with courage and willpower. When you have turned 21 you really must be ready to choose and follow the road that will lead you to a happy life.
Daycare as a Second Home for our children
How do you feel about day cares? Would you prefer to put your children in daycare, or would you take care of them by yourself? We all know that it is wrong to take children away from their parents. However, these days fathers and mothers have to go to work. They should get their children to a daycare. Some people say that a daycare is not a good place for children, but the following reasons will show why a child should go to a daycare center.
The first reason for allowing children to go to the daycare is they will be more socialized in the future lives. The bases of people's characteristics are formed in their childhoods. If children don't have any contact with others, how can they improve themselves? Day cares are a place where where children can meet other children. They can play with each other and make friends.
The second reason to have daycare for children is that they will be ready to go to school. The first day of school can be a very bad memory for those who have had no daycare experience. For example, I have had day care experience, when i came to school. My father dropped me off outside my school. I was very happy. I was surprised when I saw a lot of my classmates were with their parents. While they were crying, they said we don't want to stay in school alone. I think it was the first time that they were without their parents.
The last reason for using day care for children is because their parents can continue their jobs. Some companies' policy for having a child is not very good. For example, after giving birth to a child new mothers have two months off. What are they supposed to do? If they do not go to work , they will be laid off. It is not a dilemma.Day care is a good solution. Therefore, by choosing a good day care for their children, they can keep their jobs.
Some opponents of day care might say that nobody can take care of children like their parents. We cannot trust day cares to take care of our children. However, children have to go to school. Parents cannot always be with them. Sooner or later children have to be independent from their parents. Therefore, sooner is better. During their time in day care, children learn how they can adapt themselves to be far from their parents. Also, they do not have any problem in this case when they want to go to school.
There are many good reasons for children to go to day care. It seems that, it has benefits for both children and their parents. Let's try to give our children a good experience o their first day of school, by allowing them to go to day care.
Monday, April 27, 2009
TOEFL Test

Tuesday, April 21, 2009
The Great Debaters

Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Gary
Monday, March 2, 2009
Jungle Love

Mary is the tour leader, a girl of about 25
years old. She was born Belize and she's really nice.
And she is easy to live together, and she has a nice
smile. What's more, she can konw what the people
thinking about and understanding what the
people think about.
I choise this picture to describe Mary because
I think this girl is virtuous. And she looks very kindly.
Love together stay together


Bernard Chiluba: an African student of the photography. He got love with Ikuko in England. They were enjoy their life very much. One sunday morning, Bernard told the truth to Ikuko, he got married twelve years ago, his wife left him and the children. Right now, he needed to go back his hometown because his mother was too old to take care his children. He promised her, they will be together again soon. But he didn't give her any news from Africa, no letter, no fax, no phone call. Maybe he was back with his wife or somebody else, why hasn't he told her?Ikuko can't believe that he doesn't care. He had forgotten her, she can't forget him. Bernard did everything to her, and he didn't do everything to her at this monent. As we know Bernard just had hurt Ikuko badly, Bernard want to be stay together or .......
Nothing but the Truth
The Lady in White



